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1. Start slow. While dating over the net, watch out for someone who seems too good to be true. Begin by first communicating solely via email. Be on the lookout for odd behavior or inconsistencies. "Listen" to your correspondent's words. The person at the other end may not be who or what he/she says. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.

2. Guard Your Anonymity. Never include your last name, real email address, personal Web site URL, home address, phone number, place of work, or any other identifying information in your profile or initial emails you exchange with other members. Make sure your email signature file is turned off, or does not include identifying information, when corresponding with a member via your own email. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for this information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it. Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before revealing any personal contact information. Ask questions and make sure you are satisfied with the answers. Trust your instincts, move cautiously and be selective. 

3. Exercise Caution and Common Sense. Careful, well-thought decisions generally lead to better results in dating, and this is certainly true with online dating too. Guard against trusting the untrustworthy. Any suitor must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior. Your job is to take all the time you need to test for a trustworthy person, and pay careful attention along the way. Take a relatively conservative approach to trusting anyone you meet online. If you think someone is lying, it is likely that they are, so act accordingly. Move on to someone you can eventually trust. Conduct yourself and your romances in a responsible manner. Don't fall in love at the click of a mouse. Don't become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. 

4. Request a Photo. A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling about your correspondent. In fact, it's best to view several images of this person in a variety of settings: casual, formal, indoor, outdoors. If he or she continuously comes up with an excuse, it may be because that person has something to hide. Getting a photo scanned is not expensive, so there is little excuse for not doing it. 

5. Talk Via Telephone. A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. It is worth the cost of the call to protect your security. But do not give out your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a cell phone number instead for added security. Or make arrangements to call from a pay phone. Only when you feel completely comfortable should you furnish your phone number. 

6. Meet When YOU Are Ready. The beauty of meeting and relating online is that you can gradually collect information and then make a choice about pursuing the relationship in the real world. You are never obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. Trust yourself. Go with your gut instincts, even when they can't be logically explained. Never meet someone who argues against your instincts, finds logical flaws with your feelings or pressures you in any way. 

7. Watch for Red Flags. Pay attention to any displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any physically inappropriate behavior are all red flags. You should also be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following conduct without providing an acceptable explanation: 

• Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc. 
• Refuses to speak to you over the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy. 
• Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions. 
• Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona. 
• Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members. 

• Before you begin to chat, take a moment to view the conversations and get a feel for the atmosphere in the room.

• Introduce yourself and greet everyone in the room. A simple "Hello Everyone" is a great way to start.

• Don't gossip. It seldom casts a flattering light upon you.

• Use chat rooms and tools to your advantage. "Ignore" anyone who is disruptive.

• Expression is an important part of chat. Familiarize yourself with emotions and other chat  expressions to look and feel like a pro.

• Select a certain day, time, and chat room to meet your friends each week.

• Once you establish a group forum, vary the location of your meetings to allow others to participate.

• Host your own chat events.

• Use an uncommon or striking headline: The Personal Profile should not be a professional but avoid boring demographic descriptions like "SF Seeks SM for LTR." Instead, try to make it bit interesting and lively. Be daring! Elicit an emotion! Express yourself!
• Personal Description: Make your profile interesting describing yourself and also what you are looking for in your potential partner. For interesting and the right personal profile, you need to be totally honest in writing up. For that first make a list of things you like to put in and are important for you. The other thing you need to be careful is to make sure the description is not lengthy but up to the point so that the other person does not get bore while reading it. It should be in such a way and long enough that the visitor gets all the information in the first few lines.
• Proofread. Spelling, punctuation and grammar are as important as content. Think of the presentation of your message as a way of dressing for a date. While clothes don't make the man (or woman), no one wants to appear shoddy or unkempt. 
• Say it with style. What you say may not be as important as how you say it. Play with words. Write poetry. Tell a story.
• Be less-than perfect. Regardless of the style you choose or the language you use to express yourself, be careful not to extol your many virtues to the point of boredom, or even suspicion. No one can be that perfect. Your minor faults and charming inconsistencies make you human, interesting and approachable. 
• Avoid sending up red flags. Don't whine, complain or drivel on about any problems in your life. Refrain from casting yourself in the role of the victim, the egregiously wronged, or the emotionally mortally wounded. Be positive and optimistic.